A controversial move as couple renames their adopted child to give family Name to their biological Son, sparking outrage.
Preserving a Family Legacy
August V, a user on an online forum, sought advice from the community when he and his wife embarked on the legal process of changing their adopted child’s name to match that of their biological son. This decision is rooted in a long-standing tradition in August V’s family, where the first-born son is given the same name to carry on the family legacy. According to August V, it was always his plan to name his first-born son August VI.
Heartbreaking News for the Couple
Unfortunately, August V and his wife discovered that they were unable to conceive a child after multiple attempts. August V shared, “It was devastating to learn that I had fertility issues and was told that I would never be able to father children. We immediately began the adoption process, primarily looking into foreign countries to expedite the procedure, and eventually, we were able to adopt a baby boy from Vietnam.”
Introducing Thien
Recognizing that the chances of having a biological son were slim, August V and his wife decided to carry on the family’s legacy by giving their adopted son the name August VI. Although he was known as Thien in school, church, and other social settings, his legal name was officially August VI.
Embracing the Unexpected
The couple wholeheartedly embraced their role as parents to Thien, accepting their situation with grace. However, they still held onto a glimmer of hope. August V expressed, “We agreed to let nature take its course because miracles can happen.”
A Surprising Turn of Events
Much to their astonishment, seven years later, the couple was blessed with the arrival of a biological child. August V shared, “We now have a healthy, beautiful, amazing biological son whom we love just as much as Thien.”
Reclaiming the Family Name
With the arrival of their biological son, the couple believed it was only fair to reclaim the name given to Thien and bestow it upon their biological child. August V explained, “With my wife’s consent, I made the decision that, now having a biological son, it would be more fitting for the first-born biological son to carry on the family name. We have completed the necessary legal procedures to change Thien’s name, and our biological son now bears the name August [Surname Removed] VI on his birth certificate.”
Thien’s Indifference
August V reassured others that Thien did not appear to be bothered by the name change or the legal procedures involved. According to him, Thien was more captivated by the judge’s gavel.
Keeping the Matter Private
Initially, the couple preferred to keep their children’s names a private matter. However, they had to disclose the situation to Thien’s school. Unfortunately, word spread rapidly through a nosy individual at the school, eventually reaching Thien’s soccer team. As a result, they have become social outcasts, facing relentless gossip and accusations of not loving Thien enough.
A Growing Turmoil
The situation spiraled out of control, leading the couple to contemplate transferring Thien to a different team. However, this decision would deeply upset Thien, who has formed strong bonds with his three best friends on his current team.
Self-Doubt Arises
While August V and his wife were confident in their actions initially, the intense scrutiny they faced prompted them to question whether they had made a mistake. August V voiced his concerns, saying, “The situation has escalated to a point where I’m viewed as the antagonist. Am I really the one at fault here?”
Opinions From the Forum
Forum users wasted no time in expressing their strong disapproval of the couple’s actions, deeming them inappropriate and inconsiderate as parents. One user bluntly stated, “You are unquestionably in the wrong. People like you should never adopt.” Another person added, “You’re at fault. By involving your child in a legal proceeding, you are ensuring that he will always be considered inferior to your biological son.”
The Responsibility of Adopting Children
Critics chastised the couple for treating Thien as a mere replacement, arguing that children should not be seen as interchangeable objects. A user on the forum shared, “If you are struggling with fertility issues, seek therapy before considering adoption. Children are not placeholders.” Another user voiced a similar sentiment, stating, “Regardless of whether we give birth to them, marry into their family, or foster and adopt them, all children are precious gifts. They are not disposable items we swap out with the changing seasons.”
Unfathomable Actions
Forum participants expressed disbelief at the couple’s decision, unable to comprehend their thought process. One person commented, “I am still struggling to comprehend the reasoning behind this man’s actions. In my opinion, these individuals should not be allowed to have children.” Another user exclaimed, “The level of disgust I feel toward what you have done is indescribable. This post has to be fake.”
A Disappointment to Thien
Forum users shared their heartbreak for Thien, who had been adopted by individuals like August V and his wife. One comment read, “You have shown your adopted child that biology triumphs over all. Shame on you and your wife.”
Another user expressed their opinion, saying, “There is no doubt that you are in the wrong. Your son is not an object that you can change at your whim. You claim to love both your sons equally, but I find it hard to believe. Thien is just as much your son as this new baby, and taking away his name because you now have a biological child is selfish and harmful to his mental well-being.”
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