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Books are a great way to escape from the day-to-day grind of life. Uplifting books can be especially helpful when you’re going through difficult times, offering comfort, perspective, and hope.
When life becomes overwhelming, instead of thrashing away at the keyboard and ignoring what’s happening, grab a great book and change your experience.
1. Always Looking Up: The Adventures of the Incurable Optimist — Michael J. Fox
Michael J. Fox, the actor well known for the epic film Back to the Future, shares his decades-long struggle with Parkinson’s disease. The book, however, is not a bid for sympathy. Fox’s positive approach to the challenges is inspirational as the book takes the reader on a journey of discovery and an evolving perspective. With time for reflection, Fox developed a spiritual approach to his illness and found happiness and acceptance.
If we’re feeling overwhelmed and emotional, we have a choice whether to stay there. This book is a testament to developing a growth mindset and not allowing anything to determine how we live.
2. The Little Book of Ikigai — Ken Mogi
This book takes an Eastern approach to creating a balanced life using the Japanese concept of the five pillars of Ikigai. The author teaches us to reconsider the pursuit of happiness and develop a mindful appreciation of small daily practices using the five pillars. Readers will find balance, joy, and happiness in the little things when they finish the book.
3. Atomic Habits — James Clear
Atomic Habits is my favorite book. I’ve read it three times and learned something new with each read. Feeling overwhelmed often comes from repeating habitual patterns. The brain resists change, but author James Clear offers simple, powerful techniques to reprogram daily habits to make people more productive and less overwhelmed.
4. Man’s Search for Meaning — Viktor Frankl
Reading about a Holocaust survivor might not seem the perfect book to reduce feeling overwhelmed, but it helps you gain perspective about your life and find meaning. Frankl reframed his awful experience in a Nazi concentration camp and found a connection to meaning. It’s a powerful message that teaches us that we have the inner power to shape our destiny.
5. Mindset: The New Psychology of Success — Carol S. Dweck
This super book explores the difference between fixed and growth mindsets. People with a fixed mindset may say, “This is how we have always done it,” without considering other options (often seen in the corporate world). People with a growth mindset are flexible thinkers, optimistic, and solution-focused. They adapt to situations as they arise.
6. The Power of Now — Eckhart Tolle
The Power of Now is a classic bestseller for a mindful approach to life. Eckhart Tolle encourages the reader to live in the moment without regrets or fears for the future. That which we resist causes us pain, not the thing itself, and that can be challenging for people to accept. You’ll either love or hate this book, but I’d advise sticking with the principles because living in the “now” will transform your life experiences.
7. Attached — Rachel Heller and Amir Levine
This fascinating book delves into the science of “attachment” in relationships. Why is it important to reduce overwhelm? If you have an anxious or avoidant attachment style, you may put too much pressure on your relationships and find people less inclined to stick around. The goal is to develop a secure attachment style independent of others for your happiness and well-being.
After reading the book, you’ll understand your attachment style and recognize the attachment styles of those close to you.
8. The Miracle Morning — Hal Elrod
The Miracle Morning: The Not So Obvious Secret to Transform Your Life Before 8 a.m. is a book you’ll either love or want to toss out of the window from chapter one. Successful gurus like Hal Elrod espouse the power of leaping out of bed before the sparrows are awake. In theory, the principles are sound and work like a charm if you can be consistent. This book may become your favorite if you’re a morning person, less so if it takes three cups of coffee to start at 9 a.m.
9. Love Yourself Like Your Life Depends on It — Kamal Ravikant
Author Kamal Ravikant overcame a life of personal and professional failure and learned to love himself regardless of his results. This book is a powerful message about self-compassion and self-love, two things that weirdly seem to be discouraged from childhood. Our conditioning teaches us to believe it is wrong and selfish to love who we are and that we should care only about making other people feel loved. I love this book. Ravikant shares a fundamental truth that everyone needs to hear.
10. Rich Dad Poor Dad — Robert Kiyosaki
Most people believe this classic book is about making money, and it is to a degree. However, the underlying message is about two fathers. One has a rich mindset, and the other has a poor mindset, and the book explains how their thinking determines results. The Western world tells us that money is the secret to happiness but fails to teach us how to succeed in relationships, life balance, self-belief, and self-love. Robert Kiyosaki encourages us to learn, gain skills, and never stop learning.
11. How to Win Friends and Influence People — Dale Carnegie
Dale Carnegie has long passed, but this seminal book and its message live on. It’s easier to overcome feeling overwhelmed when you have a network of friends to support you. The book teaches readers how to become more likable by active listening and shaping the behavior of others by how we communicate (without manipulation).
12. The Dip — Seth Godin
Seth Godin is a prolific and successful author, and this book hits the mark. He discusses the “dip,” when we do not know whether to quit or keep going. Sometimes, the “sunk cost bias” keeps us anchored to something only because of the effort, time, or money spent on it. Quitting is often associated with failure, and that’s a flawed belief. This book made a significant impact on me. The author writes in a conversational style, which makes it an easy read.
13. Start With Why — Simon Sinek
Simon Sinek is an inspirational author, and the message in this bestselling book is timeless. Although it focuses more on identifying the “why” in business, it applies equally to finding your purpose. The author doesn’t leave you hanging there, either. Sinek demonstrates how to communicate your purpose effectively. He reiterates that people don’t care about what you do. They only care about why you do it.
14. The War of Art — Simon Pressfield
The War of Art: Break Through the Blocks and Win Your Inner Creative Battles is a book created to help artists break through creative blocks. However, the book has a timeless message about identifying the mental blocks holding us back from doing what we love. It will help you overcome the challenges of procrastination and reconnect you to what matters. You might discover if you’re overwhelmed because what you’re doing isn’t essential to your inner purpose.
15. Managing Oneself — Peter Drucker
Peter Drucker’s book explores how soft skills, such as emotional intelligence and self-awareness, can positively impact your experiences. The book has many exercises and questions to kickstart your self-exploration. By the end, you will have a better idea about managing yourself and accomplishing more without feeling overwhelmed.
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